How can I ask a lesbian about sexuality? I'm writing an article about lesbian sexuality, and I need to find some lesbians to ask questions to. What's the best way of doing this?
I'm a straight guy, and I'm not trying to flirt with lesbians. I'm just trying to ask questions. |
| Just find some and ask them politely if they would mind answering a few questions, and don't be pushy and if they don't feel comfortable answering a question then just move on to the next. |
Do you think a past sexual experience led you to your gay/bisexual/lesbian sexuality? Like when i was 10 i slept with a 16 year old guy and ever since then i felt i was bisexual. Like have any of you had sex with an older person when you were younger and it turned out to be a doorway to your sexuality? |
Gay / lesbian / bisexuality / asexuality are sexual orientations are are present at birth (although not active until puberty... usually). Sexual abuse neither causes or changes anyone's sexual orientation. I would like to clarify some definitions:
Sexual Orientation: Sexual orientation is a pattern of emotional, romantic, and/or sexual attractions to men, women, both genders, neither gender, or another gender. This is what Kinsey measured in his behavioral studies.
Sexual Identity: Sexual identity describes how persons identify their own sexuality. This may or may not relate to their actual sexual orientation. In a 1990 study by the Social Organization of Sexuality, only 16% of women and 36% of men who reported some level of same-sex attraction had a homosexual or bisexual identity. Sexual Identity is a relatively new idea, it was first defined in the mid-1800s. |
Why aren't there any songs about homo/gay/lesbian sexuality? On the radio you always hear famous songs like Taylor Swifts Romantic love stories, and Jason Derulos songs about fantasies in his head with a chic....well what about the homo/gay/lesbian sexuality???? Are there any songs out there about something other than the opposite sex? And im not talking about Katy Perry's i kissed a girl...or any paradies...Genuine question here |
There are some, but -- because they're designed to be sold to straight people (the majority), for money. The only exception were Tatu, who were straight pretending to be lesbians to sell to straight boys. They did have a couple good songs, though... Half the people who WRITE the straight love songs are gay themselves. I've noticed more lyrics are second person (me/you) these days rather than he/she so they avoid gender altogether.
Some gay/bi/les groups:
L 7
Indigo Girls
Teagan & Sarah
Ani Difranco
Pansy Division |
I am no longer in denial over my sexuality (lesbian) and am I am ready to come out to family (read below)? I've been in denial for 5 years (I'm now 16) and I have finally come to terms with it. I want to tell my mum, dad and brother (who is 18 and has many lesbian friends), but I have no idea how to do this! Help is very much appreciated, thank you :) |
| If your house has carpet, lick it and they'll get the idea. |
If I doubt my sexuality does that mean I am a lesbian? I'm not sure what my sexuality is and it's confusing me. I don't want to be a lesbian at all. |
Who are you attracted to? Who turns you on? Who are your celebrity crushes, or your regular crushes?
Your sexuality is yours. If you are struggling with it, that is ok. I don't know how old you are or what gender you are, but it is fine to be confused. There are a lot of resources that can help - I've posted a few below. Whether you want to ask some bisexual people some questions, learn about the Kinsey scale (which is a way of thinking abut your personal sexuality) or you just need some resources of someone to talk to, there are a lot of people.
As far as not wanting to be a lesbian - you never ever have to take on a label that you don't like. If you dislike the word lesbian and would rather identify as something else - do it. Don't worry - lots of people handcraft their own title. |
Confused about my sexuality, lesbian/bi or straight? I am emotionally attracted to girls, i fall in love with girls because of there personality but never really wanted to do more with girls other than kiss.
I have wanted to do more with boys but i am not emotionally attracted to them.
Can someone help me, im confused, thanks, easy 10 points! |
| I'm pretty sure you're straight. I mean - do you fantasize about men? Does like seeing a picture of a man in his undies excite you LOL? I'm straight and I LOVE the male body. I kind of agree with you in that men are completely different than girls emotionally...guys seem more rough sometimes...and it can be hard to connect with them. But there ARE some guys who show their feelings more...who are reachable...more sensitive...you just have to find them...they're out there. And I say this from experience. I'm dating a guy who is sooooo HOT. Did I say hot lol? But he's also a sweetie pie! I've even seen him cry...he's a marshmallow underneath all the manliness. I think that's the best combo. :) No offense to anyone who's lesbian/gay...but why sell yourself short by being w/a woman if you're not physically attracted to them in a deep/intense way? The best thing in my opinion is cuddling with a guy who's both sensitive and sexy...you can look into each other's eyes and do sweet talk...and enjoy all the manly physical features at the same time. Hope that helped some. :) |
What's your sexuality if you dress and act like a lesbian, but you like guys? I know if a guy acts gay, but is straight it's metro-sexual, but what if a girl acts like a lesbian, but is straight? |
| Tom-Boy |
Being good at hiding your sexuality? lesbian? how can someone be pretty good at hiding her sexuality? how to do it? |
Zellparis, seriously. Its starting to get old fast.
Just don't be a butch, simple as that really. Not all lesbians are obvious and its not because they don't want to be, its just how they are. |
Is Lesbian Sexuality Ever Emotional/Long Lasting Or Just Uncontrollable Sexual Urges? WOMEN all have one thing in common, WHEN THEY CAN'T MAKE IT WITH THE MEN, THEY TURN TO THE WOMEN, and the sweet honey and sugar runs dry, the depart back to the men.
Thus, lesbian women sexual, emotional, and personal behaviors in theory, is always a result of uncontrollable, temporary, and uncoordinated urges to find comfort which can be provided by a ''normal relationship with the men.
THIS IS ESPECIALLY TRUE since WOMEN IN GENRAL have a much harder time living together, coperating on financial and personal issues, and coping with daily anxiety.
TAKE MY WORD FOR IT, every major celebrity lesbian e.g rosie and kelly, ellen degeneres, ricki lake, and all those rich white... break up simply because they retarded vews on sexualITY come into conflict of whats real which is, WOMAN NEVER PREFER ANOTHER WOMAN, if there is stronegr many who is NOT TOO AGGRESSIBE.
Thus, lesbian behaviro can';t be nothing but subconscious as they split, break up, backlash with each other, and fall apart very quickly when the narrow minded woman ISN'T STRONG ENOUGH tO COMPETE WITH the male values and integiryt of daily life. |
This is a much better troll. Starts off with decent grammar and spelling and degenrates as the rage builds until there are mispellings and strange punctuation.
The "argument" is presented about following urges in a manner that is very train-of-thought showing that the troll is allowing their own urges to control their writing.
Very subtle.
Score: 8/10 - Recent troll attempts have been lame and this one benefits from being the strongest on a weak day. |